At Jensen's preschool they do "special" days instead of birthdays, so that everybody gets to have a day, including all the summer birthdays, like Jence. Jensen had been so excited for his day to arrive- he told me he couldn't wait to bring in his snack and to do all the things the special day person gets to do, and (this was my favorite) to have me come to school with him and introduce "Sara" to his class and his teachers. So the day arrived and I got to go join Jensen in his class.
Their names are always in the same place, so he always sits next to Charlotte and Maddie and is a "green triangle".
Though just in the past few days it has started to resolve itself... sigh.